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Caring is not caring?

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Photo by Martin Malina (July 2020, Galilee Retreat Centre, Arnprior)

The theme since Pentecost Sunday has been relationships. The tone was set on Trinity Sunday, when we again emphasized that God is revealed in relationship – one God, relating in three distinct persons: Creator/Father, Redeemer/Son, Empowerer/Spirit. If God is a relational God, it follows, then, that our faith is expressed in relationship.

The focus then shifts to human relationships among us, on earth, specifically in a community of faith. This is fundamental in Christianity. Our faith is not lone-ranger stuff. Relationships are key. And the quality of those relationships is our focus.

Last week we underscored what connects us all, like roots systems and unseen fungi networks connecting all trees deep underground. What unites us, what ultimately gives us life, protects and keeps us, empowers us and grows us may not be immediately apparent and visible unless you dig a little deeper.

Today’s sermon can be part 2 from last week’s part 1. Because whenever we take a closer look in matters of faith, we often run into a paradox. On the one hand, we are united, bound together in God’s love and grace. But on the other hand, there are spaces in between us that we need to respect.

There are differences that differentiate us one from another. Not honouring those natural boundaries that make us a diverse community violates the very nature and purpose of God’s creation. A beautiful, diverse creation. There are no two exactly-the-same elements, neither between two snowflakes nor between identical twins. I know this to be true, because I am one. An identical twin, that is! My identical twin brother and I are not the same, despite the apparent similarities.

“I hold this to be the highest task of a bond between two people: that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other”.                                                             Rainer Maria Rilke

Even among family members. In the Gospel for today (Luke 9:51-62), Jesus concludes by offering what sounds like harsh words implying that relationships within a family should withstand separation and leave-taking. Admittedly, this side of the paradox can be as difficult and for some even more difficult to practice than the unity part.

Is Jesus advocating for the split up of the family for the sake of the Gospel? How do we resolve the paradox of faith between strong bonds of unity in any family however defined, and a healthy differentiation among members of that family? Unity and diversity.

There is a clue at the beginning of this text to help us navigate the contours of healthy spiritual relationship and resolve the apparent contradiction implied here.

Jesus’ face is set to Jerusalem. “His face was set to go to Jerusalem” is a phrase that is repeated in this Gospel text (Luke 9:51-52).

Jesus had an ambiguous relationship with Jerusalem. His focused attention to go to Jerusalem comes from knowing what he had to face in Jerusalem: the cross, death, and the divine yet challenging purposes of God.

In Jerusalem he would be arrested, tortured, and killed. And, in Jerusalem he would be hailed king and then rise from the dead. It’s a mission he was bent on fulfilling despite the cost.

Jesus grieves. Not only was he accustomed to grief – weeping at the death of his friend Lazarus (John 11:35). He weeps for the city that would kill him. Before the torturous events of his last days, he weeps and grieves lovingly over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-42). Jesus knew that he needed to let go for him to find new life again. His face set towards Jerusalem reveals his anticipated grief that he will experience within those city walls.

This insight helps me put into context what follows in today’s Gospel about relationships, especially implying family and those closest to us. Jesus’ words speak of a loving detachment.

In Genesis 2:18 after God created Adam, God did not want Adam to be alone. So, God created a “helper”. This verse is taken to be the foundation of intimate relationship, of marriage. The Hebrew word here is usually translated as helpmate. But the Hebrew word more accurately translates, “someone to help you by standing opposite you” (Brous, 2024, pp. 35-36).

It means someone to face you. When someone faces you, they stand opposite you, not shoulder to shoulder, not beside you. For someone to face you, there is always a gap, even a small one, between two people facing each other. A helper positions themselves opposite another. There’s a gap in between them.

“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone. Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of [God] can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow” (Kahlil Gibran).

Kahlil Gibran’s “Let there be spaces in your togetherness” is a famous passage from his book The Prophet, specifically from the section on marriage. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining individuality and personal space within an intimate relationship.

What is vital for healthy partnership is not becoming completely intertwined, enmeshed and losing one’s sense of self. When our inner lives seek to merge with another’s, and we adopt another’s emotions for our own, we lose our sense of self. Enmeshment is not a sign of loving, caring, godly relationship. It is the opposite.

Kahlil Gibran’s words, “Let there be spaces in your togetherness” highlights the need for healthy boundaries and personal autonomy within a relationship. That beautiful metaphor, “And let the winds of the heavens dance between you” suggests allowing for freedom and personal growth in the other. And finally, “Love one another, but make not a bond of love” emphasizes that true love is not possessive nor restrictive. Instead, it is a force that allows for individual expression and movement according to the Spirit of creation that forms each person in unique ways.

Loving relationship, in the way of Jesus, is an ever-changing connection, like a sea between two shores. It is not a static, unyielding bond. True love involves respecting the other person’s need for space and independence. 

Jesus helps by standing opposite another, facing us, encouraging in us a capacity to care deeply without becoming overly entangled or controlled by the emotions or actions of others. Jesus helps us by giving others freedom to make their own choices and deal with the consequences of those choices themselves. This form of detachment, often referred to as “detachment with love” (Martin, 2023 January 31) is seen as a way to foster healthier relationships and personal well-being. 

From this perspective, Jesus’ challenging words make more sense to me. “Let the dead bury their own dead,” and, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God” (Luke 9:60-62).

He is not advocating for hating your family, abandoning them, running away, being disengaged and isolated from them. Jesus is rather emphasizing the importance of a mutual care whereby people can stand “opposite” each other because they respect the space in between and permit the loved one to pursue their own life.

In this way, healthy relationships whether in a marriage, a family, a community, a nation, hold space for each other, hold space for our differences, hold space by facing each other in mutual respect and love. In so doing we honour the love Christ has for each person as a beloved, uniquely created child of God.

References:

Brous, S. (2024). The amen effect: Ancient wisdom to mend our broken hearts and world. Avery.

Gibran, K. (2022). The prophet. Peter Pauper Press.

Martin, S. (2023, January 31). Detaching with love is good for everyone: Distancing yourself from other people’s problems isn’t selfish or cruel [website]. Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/conquering-codependency/202301/detaching-with-love-is-good-for-everyone

Rilke, R. M. (2002). Letters to a young poet. Dover Publications.

A little bit of root goes a long way

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Photo by Martin Malina, on the Mattawa River at Samuel De Champlain Provincial Park, Ontario, May 3, 2025

This past week the in-person grief group concluded our weekly meetings by planting a spruce tree in the church yard. It is a memorial tree, in memory of baby Leyla who died last December. We also dedicated it to the losses shared by all group members, in the hope of continued connection and love over time.

When I was digging the hole for the tree earlier in the day, I was about a foot down in the earth when, thunk! my shovel hit something hard. And it wasn’t a stone. It was long and cylindrical, and at first I feared I was boring into some underground pipe or cable. Upon further inspection I realized it was a gigantic tree root.

I looked up and around and then noticed that some thirty feet away in the corner of the yard close to our neighbour’s hedge line was a towering spruce tree reaching over eighty feet into the sky. From its base, facing me, one large root dove into the ground heading my way.

Well, here at the bottom of the hole, lined in the same direction was the same root upon which we would be planting a baby spruce tree.

I also realized that, before I knew what I was digging into I had damaged the root by cutting it and chipping away surface layers during my initial inspection. The giant spruce thirty feet away must have felt the pain of this violent, threatening incursion upon its body and territory.

How would this old tree heal its fresh wounds?

In the Gospel today, we witness a dramatic healing story (Luke 8:26-39). A man is besieged by demons who have possessed him and left him isolated from his community for years.

In today’s language, we might say he was mentally compromised. Nobody wanted him around. He was deranged and unpredictable in his shocking behaviour and appearance. Consequently, the man was shackled and left alone in some cave distant from the city.

After the drama with the drowning of the pigs, we suddenly see the man calmly sitting at Jesus’ feet, “in his right mind” (v. 35). He has been healed.

Naturally, he wants to stick with Jesus, travel with him. He even begs to go with Jesus. Who could blame him? His own community had shunned him when he was sick. What does he owe them? And Jesus is this man who made him well, who finally showed him some mercy and compassion.

But Jesus refuses his plea. “Return to your home (v. 39),” Jesus instructs him. Now that you are healed, share with others in your community the meaning of your healing, that this is what God wants for everyone: Restoration of relationships that have been divided, that have been hurt and damaged.

Today, we typically think of illness and disability as biological, with Western medicine set up “to find and cure disease directly” (Kenny, 2022, p. 5). People in Jesus’ day, however, thought about healing in a much broader sense. They talked about healing as integrating someone back into their social and religious life. The Greek word often used in scripture for healing means “to make whole” or “to save” (Kenny, 2022, pp. 8-9). It’s the same word used to talk about salvation.

Modern medicine still recognizes the difference between curing and healing. Curing is a physical process. Healing focuses on restoring interpersonal, social, and spiritual dimensions of our lives (Kenny, 2022).

Jesus’ healing is not just a cure. It’s not purely about a physical, biological, alteration but about reestablishing right relationship between humanity and God, and hopefully, between individuals and their community (Kenny, 2022). Jesus was sending the man back to his community, to restore his relationship with them.

And maybe that’s why the crowds who witnessed this healing were so afraid – “seized with great fear” (v. 35-37) in fact – so much so they asked Jesus to leave them. They may have understood the implications of Jesus’ healing action. They would have been much more comfortable to remain in their self-created world of perceived purity which drew dividing lines between ‘them’ and ‘us’, between those who were acceptable and those who were not. They were afraid because now they would have to change their ways.

Are we willing to change our ways so that we can be healed, so that others can be healed? Because, how else can we?

So, how was the tree root I dug into going to heal its wounds?

Well, I believe the addition of another spruce tree into its environment, its community of trees beside the church, will contribute to its healing. It will help that the new sapling was planted right over top of the wounded root. The new tree’s roots are practically touching it.

Not only will the old spruce continue to live, but it will be healed for a purpose of supporting the new member in the community. How will it do that?

Tree roots are interconnected by fungal networks, thereby creating a system of mutual support and protection. These fungi form symbiotic relationships with tree roots, creating an extensive underground network, where two or three are gathered. This network functions like a living internet, facilitating the exchange of nutrients, water, and even warnings about potential dangers between trees (Wall Kimmerer, 2015).

Not only will the damaged root heal and survive, but the new spruce will also integrate into a healthier ecosystem and contribute to the overall well-being and resilience of the entire tree community in this area.

Following in Jesus’ way, healing happens when relationships can experience mercy and compassion, grace and love. And this process of healing takes time. Just think about the time it takes for new plants to establish themselves, and trees to become integrated in a new fungal network underneath the ground.

Healing is not a switch we or God just turn on and it happens. For that healed man, it wasn’t going to be easy for him to get used to life in the city. Neither was it going to be easy for the city folks to get used to him being around.

The healing, the restoration, is a lifelong process. So, for now, just a little bit of grace and love. A little bit of grace, love and compassion can help us reach out to welcome and support others who at first may seem far away from where we are. Those roots can go a long way underground over time. A little bit of grace and love can serve to bring us all just a bit closer together.

Because, in the end, we are not divided, isolated and cut-off. Saint Paul, in that beautiful text from his letter to the Galatians, emphasizes the inclusive nature of the community in faith, “For all of you are one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28). Above the ground, we may be distracted by focusing on the space between us. From what is visible, those trees are not side-by-side. There’s lots of grassy area in between. Just ask Norm how long it takes to cut the grass here!

But underneath the surface, the truth comes out. Without denying or glossing over our differences, we are connected. We are in a relationship. We are one.

For our healing, just a little bit of God goes a long way.

References:

Kenny, A. (2022). My body is not a prayer request: Disability justice in the church. Brazos Press.

Wall Kimmerer, R. (2015). Braiding sweetgrass: Indigenous wisdom, scientific knowledge, and the teaching of plants. Milkweed Editions.

Divine fireworks

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July 1, 2019 (photo by Martin Malina)

For Father’s Day, I received an upgrade on our backyard fire pit. This set includes stone bricks, a metal insert and a three-foot diameter pit. A couple weekend ago Mika and I spent the afternoon laying down patio stones on which we assembled the bricks and poured in the river stones for the base. This new fire pit will be a central feature in our backyard, hopefully for years to come.

In the memorial service for Byron last week, his brothers wrote about special memories. They highlighted a particular memory outside, around a fire pit. This time together served to strengthen their brotherly bond.

They wrote, “One time when the whole family was up at the farm, we had a great campfire … The jokes never ended. Pretty sure the rest of the family [who had already gone inside] was laughing at us staying by the campfire [so late] but we were having a great time under the stars.”

Their words support what studies have shown, that family relationships are forged outdoors when camping together, whenever families gather around the fire (Jirasek et al., 2017). Summer-time campfires will make memories for friends, families and all who pull up a camp chair or picnic table to sit around the fire.

I love watching a campfire, watching the sparks rise upwards, towards the heavens, “under the stars”. The brothers quoted above had to have looked up at some point during the campfire.

Looking up at the stars.

We don’t look up anymore. Especially at night. We don’t look up anymore, when times are tough and we become lost in the darkness. We don’t look up anymore, when we can’t directly see the sun shining.

We don’t look up anymore because we are distracted, because we are in pain or we have suffered some loss and are hurting inside. We don’t look up when we’ve lost a job, failed in a relationship, make a huge mistake and are weighed down by shame, guilt.

We look down. We spend most of our time not looking up towards the sky.

1 O Lord our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! —
 2 you whose glory is chanted above the heavens …                           

3 When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers,
  the moon and the stars you have set in their courses … (Psalm 8)

We need to look up more. Fathers need to look up more, to see that the world is much more than their failures and shortcomings. Men need to look up more, to see a reality beyond the world of their own creation.

All of us need to look up more, and beyond to the great mystery the stars represent, the great mystery of God. We need to appreciate God’s limitless, expansive universe. Just because we can’t see the sun shining when we find ourselves in the dark, doesn’t mean it isn’t, somewhere on the earth. Doesn’t mean there aren’t trillions of other suns shining in the universe.

Admittedly Holy Trinity Sunday has often got us stuck in the quagmire of analysis. We try to dissect God into different autonomous parts, like disassembling a machine. “How can God be one person in three parts?”

But we lose our way going down that reductionist rabbit hole.  Ours is not the purpose to comprehend the fullness of God. That’s an exercise in futility if there ever was one.

The purpose of Holy Trinity Sunday, rather, is to encourage followers of Jesus with the knowledge and awareness that God’s Spirit has been poured into our hearts (Romans 5:5). That Jesus and the Father are one. And that Jesus lives in us through the Holy Spirit (John 14-16) who will “guide us in all truth” (16:12-15).

God’s Spirit didn’t just come to us at one time in one historical event. God’s Spirit conveying the real presence of Jesus continues to come, to fall, to be poured into our lives.

Consider star light. Every minute on each square mile of earth one ten-thousandth of an ounce of starlight drizzles like gentle rain (Mahany, 2023). Stardust sprinkles down upon us. And not only on us.

We are made of actual stardust. All the atoms and elements in us come from generations of stars burning to dust and filtering down literally from the heavens. We have a small part of the divine in us. Just like the stars.

Origen of Alexandria, the third century theologian and truth seeker, argued there was a star-like quality in each and every human being. He wrote, “You must understand that … there is in you sun and moon and stars … You to whom it is said that you are ‘the light of the world’” (Mahany, 2023, p. 132; Matthew 5:14). Indeed, we should reach for the stars!

We belong to God. We belong in relationship with God. We belong in relationship with God’s people, united in Christ, and in the love of God for all. A contemporary scholar who writes extensively about God revealed in nature, wrote: “Love alone is what shows you the face of God. It’s what makes the stars shine” (Lane, 2019).

Maybe the very reason the stars were shining so brightly on the night the brothers were having so much fun around that campfire, creating memories that will endure forever, the reason they noticed the bright stars above them, is because of the deep, great love they had for each other.

May the light of stars shine brightly in our hearts, O God. May this world be transformed by the power of your love, O God – in, through and around us – in the name of God the Creator/Father, the Redeemer/Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

References:

Jirasek, I., Roberson, D.N., Jirásková, M., (2017). The impact of families camping together: Opportunities for personal and social development. Leisure Sciences, 39(1), 79-93. http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/01490400.2015.1136251

Lane, B. C. (2019). The great conversation: Nature and the care of the soul. Oxford University Press.

Mahany, B. (2023). The book of nature: The astonishing beauty of God’s first sacred text. Broadleaf Books.

Seeking kin-doms: a funeral sermon

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Byron was born at the beginning of the Easter season in 1974, on Easter weekend in fact. Byron died on the last weekend of the Easter season in 2025. His life, from beginning to end was held and embraced in the life of the resurrected Jesus. 

At the beginning of the Easter season, the beginning of Byron’s life, it is about the promise fulfilled. After months of waiting and expecting, your baby is born. New life has arrived, upturning regular routines, upsetting comfortable sleep patterns and shocking the family into a new, delightful part of life.

But at the end of the Easter season, at this unbidden moment, when the one we’ve grown to love and know and see in the flesh, leaves us. This is the difficult time for the disciples of Jesus, who now that Jesus is resurrected will leave them. They will no longer see him in the flesh. What will they do without him? This crisis of faith hits them like a gut punch.

Byron’s sudden and unexpected loss hits us like a gut punch. And we may very well still be trying to get our breath back from the shock of it.

The Easter season frames Byron’s life both in the promise of life and in the loss of it. Every funeral service, arising from the pain of death, is an Easter service no matter what time of year.

Loss is part of life. In his lifetime, Byron’s favourite team, the Indianapolis Colts only one the Super Bowl once, in 2007 under Payten Manning’s quarterbacking. For all the years that Byron was faithful to his beloved team, he endured all those losses, year after year – except for that one.

Losses and death can dominate even in the season of Easter, except for that one Win. Hope and faith stay alive despite the losses. The hope of life still to come, against all the odds. The colour of Easter is white, the colour signifying life ongoing, life eternal.

Hockey and football, two of Byron’s passions, are seasonal sports. For the most part, they happen during a defined season of every year. But I think there is something deeper going on here.

Notice in both cases we are talking about team play, with others. Football, like hockey, is a team sport. In few other sports do the players need to connect intuitively with everyone else. The better a team connects that way, the greater chance they have to win. Football players will often talk about their team-mates as family.

Byron, at heart, valued kinship. He was dedicated to family and to the network of people that made up his life. He never missed a family gathering, at Christmas and at Easter. In fact, this past Easter weekend was the last time some of you saw Byron face-to-face.

When Jesus counselled his disciples, prepared them, for his departure, he promised them he would always be with them, in them, through the Holy Spirit. He promised them that they would not be alone, and that they would always have access to him in their hearts, and in the world (John 14).

How so?

“It is God’s pleasure,” Jesus says, “to give you the kingdom” (Luke 12:32). The phrase, “kingdom of God” is mentioned some eighty times in the New Testament. It is what Jesus says is the goal, purpose and aim of the Gospel – the good news. “Seek ye first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33).

But kingdom doesn’t mean empire-building, evoking images of might-makes-right, power-seeking kings that we have witnessed throughout human history. To help us get the true gist of the word, biblical scholars are now suggesting the word kingdom should drop the ‘g’. In other words, wherever we see the word ‘kingdom’ in the New Testament what we should be reading is ‘kin-dom’ (Butler Bass, 2022).

The reign of Christ is really about our kinship with God, with creation, with one another and with ourselves. The reign of Christ is really about valuing relationships over things. For wherever your treasure is, there your heart is also. Whatever you value, your treasure, what is most important to you, your heart will follow suit.

Put another way, whatever you value, you pay more attention to. Whatever you pay attention to, you love.

Jesus says, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33). Which means, pay attention, draw your attention, to what is already in front of your eyes, to what you have in your relationships. There you will find love. And there, you will find Jesus.

Because it’s not that we don’t already have access to the kin(g)dom. It’s not that we don’t have it and we have to somehow acquire it, possess it. It’s God’s good pleasure to give us the kingdom. We already have it. It is God’s good pleasure to raise up before us the value of our relationships.

For Byron, despite the challenges he met, or maybe better yet through the challenges he faced he remained true to his values of supporting his children and valuing those relationships more than material things. He didn’t live to amass wealth and prestige. He didn’t live to accumulate material resources and build investment portfolios.

He lived for his family. It wasn’t a perfect kinship all round. Like for all of us, relationships aren’t easy. And sometimes we fail. Yet, in all his humility, simplicity, and yes even in his passion where he found his juice and motivation, underlying all of that was his commitment and dedication to his kin.

God will not stop expressing pleasure in giving us the kingdom, despite and perhaps more because of our tendency to slip up and fail. God takes pleasure in giving us the kin-dom, offering us relationships where love and grace abound.

Connecting to the life of Christ, we all live in relationship. May the kinship of God, as it did and does for Byron, surround us with grace and fill our lives with love, forever.

Reference:

Butler Bass, D. (2022). Freeing Jesus: Rediscovering Jesus as friend, teacher, savior, lord, way, and presence.Harper One.

Can you catch it?

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When I was younger I enjoyed playing catch using a softball or baseball. My catch partner and I would stand at a distance from each other, and we would toss, whip, lob, sidearm, underhand, windmill or basically throw the ball in various combinations of the above.

That simple, and for me rather therapeutic, repetitive motion – back-and-forth—impressed upon me the truth that whether the ball is successfully caught doesn’t just depend on the catcher. Whether the ball is successfully caught depends to a large degree how accurately the ball is thrown. Assuming you want your ball partner to catch the ball!

You need to throw the ball in such a way to match the catcher’s ability, attention in the moment, stance and glove position. The one throwing the ball needs to pay attention to and know the catcher. Throwing and catching the ball is a relationship in which both parties have to do their part for the exercise to work.

Which then reminds me of a popular saying in the church I have heard over the years: That faith is not taught as much as it is caught. The ball of faith, if it is to be successfully passed on, needs to be thrown in a way that the catcher can catch it. Because every individual is unique and has different abilities, personality, and capacity, the gift of faith—if it is to stick and not be dropped—needs to come at them in a way they can handle it.

No one size fits all. The ball of faith has wings to fly in a manner in which each of us can perceive it, appreciate it, and let it enter into our life. On our part, to throw the ball of faith, we need to reach people through their point of view, not our own. In other words, we need a relationship with them to seek to understand their tendency, their perspective, and then speak their language (Rubin, 2017).

One of the most significant scientific facts in existence is something we cannot directly see, touch, taste, or even smell. But we can feel it on our skin. Planet Earth is wrapped in 5,600 million million tons of air, and most of the time most of the air is moving (Mahany, 2023, p. 93). While wind is elusive, hard to define, one thing it is for sure: Wind is impossible to ignore.

photo by Martin Malina (Long Beach WA, July 21, 2017)

The winds have been particularly noticeable of late. They have been strong enough to send us the smoke caused by wildfires in Western Canada. Over the past few years, we have witnessed the effects of powerful windstorms here in Ottawa – toppling ancient trees, downing lines, throwing damaging debris.

A couple of weeks ago, a Chinese paraglider was caught in a powerful updraft sending him some nine kilometres straight upward until he was piercing the edge of the atmosphere with air temperatures near -40 degrees Celsius. Most para-gliders caught in this unfortunate circumstance don’t survive. Miraculously, he did (TWN, 2025).

Indeed, wind is elusive, dangerous. We cannot contain it, control it, nor even predict its behaviour. No wonder for people of faith the world over and since the beginning of time have made the wind, air, breath synonymous with the divine (Mahany, 2023).

There is movement in the scriptures assigned for this season after the resurrection of Jesus leading into this Pentecost Sunday. There is movement with the Spirit. The Spirit descends on the disciples gathering in Jerusalem with “the sound like the rush of a violent wind” (Acts 2:1-21). Elsewhere in the bible, Jesus breathes the Spirit into the disciples (John 20:22). God’s breath moves over creation (Genesis 1:2). “Even the winds and waves obey” the the disciples notice after Jesus stills the storm on Lake Galilee (Matthew 8:27).

The question of faith confronting the disciples after Easter was, what happens now when Jesus, the founder of the community, is no longer around? Is the community left on its own, with no access to Jesus’ presence or transformative power (Bay, 2010)? Has the wind, the breath of God, stopped blowing?

Has Jesus dropped the ball? Have the disciples? The disciples, essentially, are anticipating their grief at losing access – physical access – to their loved one in Jesus. And they don’t know what to do without him.

The question of faith is how to live amidst the perceived absence. Pentecost answers the question of grief. Because one important aspect of healing is that we are no longer defined by our losses. While the pain of grief stays with us our whole life long, who we are now is not defined by what happened then. Not because we’ve forgotten. Healing is not forgetting.

But we are now defined by what the connection to our lost loved one means to us today, now. They live in us. They live in some way in the world today. Who we are and who they are, are no longer defined by what caused our painful grieving in the first place. Instead, we are defined today by those around us who hold us, accept us, and give us encouragement on the way.

“Show us the Father,” demands Philip (John 14:8). Jesus rebukes Philip. Philip wants to see, touch, taste, control, contain, put a lock on his apprehension of faith. No, no, Jesus says to Philip and to you and to me. You know God already. You don’t need to put God in a box in order to believe. God is already with you, in you. “You know [God],” Jesus responds, “because God abides with you, and God will be in you” (John 14:17).

God is already with you, in you. The life of Jesus, through the coming Spirit of God, lives in you, through you, around you! So, act like it!

We take a breath some 20-30 thousand times a day. Yet, are we aware when we even just take one? If you do anything on this Pentecost Sunday that is spiritual and life giving, just breathe with awareness that you do. Breathe in God’s love, God’s presence. Breathe out – return the gift of God’s life and love into the world by your loving actions for your neighbour.

Jesus throws the ball of faith towards us. And it’s not that we have to catch it one way. We don’t need to be afraid of dropping it. When we are aware of the presence of Jesus, when we face him and lift our hands to catch the ball, Jesus throws it at us in a way we can receive it. Because Jesus knows us. Jesus is in a relationship of love with us. God created us. And the Spirit lifts the ball and carries it into our hearts so that we can catch it.

Thanks be to God.

References:

Bay, E. C. (2010). Pastoral perspective: John 14:8-27. In D. L. Bartlett & B. B. Taylor (Eds.). Feasting on the Word: Preaching the Revised Common Lectionary Year C, Volume 3 (pp. 20-24). Westminster John Knox Press.

Mahany, B. (2023). The book of nature: The astonishing beauty of God’s first sacred text. Broadleaf Books.

Rubin, G. (2017). The four tendencies: The indispensable personality profiles that reveal how to make your life better (and other people’s lives better, too). Harmony Books.

The Weather Network (2025). Paraglider sucked nearly 9 km up into the frigid atmosphere [Video]. Newsflare/Reuters. https://www.theweathernetwork.com/en/video/Ke6uK9sn?playlist=JRE9lq9q